These days, it is important to define roles in relationships. By doing this, husbands and wives can more easily learn how to care for one another, and what to expect from their significant other. A wife is someone with a relationship with God. Thus, she believes in and exhibits godliness. She is a woman of purpose, as well as a helper. In helping her partner, she helps fulfill their vision for their destiny, and supports them all along the way. A purposeful wife will understand where her husband is going in life, and will do anything necessary to assist him in carrying out his vision. A truly godly wife will make her husband and his vision a priority, and she will pray for and with him along the way.
Build the Relationship
It is important in marriages for the husband and wife to understand their respective roles. Too often couples hurry into a long-term relationship without thinking through their commitment. In these cases, the men and women do not take the necessary time to understand each other fully. If a couple takes the proper amount of time to understand each other and the relationship, it will be protected by God’s guidance, and their mutuality will go a very long way. Such a relationship will be built on honesty, trust, transparency, and unity, rather than any physical or materialistic values. This makes way for a relationship focused on proper priorities.
Attention to Vision
Undeniably, wives make a significant difference in the success of the relationship. Allowing one’s husband to fulfill his visions alone, or simply chalking any thoughts up to his own, rather than a collective effort, can be damaging. Doing this simply means a wife doesn’t understand her role for her husband. Due to this importance, it is just as important for husbands to understand what makes a great wife, and how to find someone that truly can help them create their future. Just like wives, husbands must also understand their partner’s ambitions and aspirations. A wife’s favor is favor from the lord, and it is the godly duty of each partner to serve as a helper to the other.
Love must be genuine, and finding genuine love takes many steps. Since marriage asks so much of you, it is important to note that it is a large part of not just your physical self, but your spiritual self as well. Finding the proper partner is finding a closer relationship with God, and should be taken very seriously. Husbands and wives must share visions, or find a way to appreciate each other’s different visions. Also, they must have similar relationships with God. While these relationships take many forms, they are the foundation for how we live our life. As such, husbands and wives must share at least some of these qualities similarly if they ever intend to grow upon one another and lead an ever-strengthening relationship.
Importance of Communication
While marriages are in many ways built on physical intimacy, like sex, kissing, and touching, these are in no way the most important part of a successful marriage. The number one key to any good relationship is proper and consistent communication. Good communication allows husbands and wives to understand each other both spiritually and emotionally. That is why good communication before a relationship even starts is the smartest way to go about establishing it. Never be afraid to ask the tough questions from someone that you’re dating. Understanding their spirituality and relationship with God will tell you a lot of necessary things about them.
Dazzle Never Hurts
The deeper, less tangible aspects of marriage and relationships, like those mentioned above, are very important. However, there is no harm in also giving proper attention to the the material parts of marriage as well. Engagements and weddings are best done with as much effort as possible. Whatever a husband or wife thinks should be the perfect setting and circumstances should try their best to make such a moment happen. These events only happen once, so doing whatever you can to make them perfect is beyond worth it. Items like wedding bells and rings should also receive proper attention. Whether your future spouse likes gold, silver, diamond, or anything else, trying your best to make their dreams come true will start a relationship at its best, and help it to last a lifetime.
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